I lived in upstate NY for about 4 years after my departure from NJ.
My homes:
New York state is a beautiful place. It is so unlike New York City that it's hard to believe that you are actually in NY. Since I am a country person I found this quite refreshing.
New York state offers much to do from Skiing at Lake Placid to vacationing in the wine country to exploring the honeymoon haven of Niagara falls. Enjoy !